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7 Habits that are secretly draining your everyday energy

  • Writer: MJ Korthals
    MJ Korthals
  • May 12
  • 9 min read

If you constantly feel tired throughout the day — even when you think you’re doing “most things right” — you are far from alone.


Low energy has become so common in modern life that many people now assume it’s normal (mic drop – it isn’t, or at least it shouldn’t be.


The afternoon crash, brain fog, low motivation, reliance on caffeine, poor focus, and constantly feeling like you need “something” to keep going have almost become accepted as part of everyday adulthood.


But the truth is, feeling exhausted all the time is not normal physiology.


And whilst poor sleep can absolutely play a role, energy is influenced by far more than simply how many hours you spend in bed each night. Your energy levels are being shaped every single day by your routines, food choices, hydration, movement, stress levels, recovery habits, and the overall structure of your lifestyle.


The challenge is that many of the habits draining your energy don’t seem harmful in isolation. Skipping breakfast occasionally doesn’t seem like a big deal. Neither does relying on another coffee, staying up slightly later than you should, sitting at a desk all day, or grabbing quick convenience foods when life gets busy.


But when these behaviours stack together day after day, week after week, they quietly create an environment where low energy becomes almost inevitable.


And before you know it – poor energy, tiredness and afternoon fatigue become a thing of normality.


The good news? Most of these habits are surprisingly fixable.


You do not need a perfect lifestyle or some unrealistic wellness routine to improve your energy dramatically. In reality, small consistent improvements in a few key areas can completely change how you feel throughout the day.


Often, it’s not one big thing draining your energy — it’s lots of small things quietly stacking against you every day.


So let’s look at 7 habits that might be secretly draining your energy and ways in which you can fix them now.


Habit 1 — Skipping Breakfast or Under-Fuelling Early


One of the most common energy mistakes people make is under-eating early in the day.


After a night of sleep, your body naturally wakes up in a fasted state (this is why we call it breakfast). Hydration levels are lower, energy stores have reduced overnight, and your body is preparing for the demands of the day ahead. This is precisely the time when your body benefits most from stable fuel and quality nutrients.


Eating well in the morning genuinely sets you up for the day ahead. Instead, many people either:


  • Skip breakfast entirely

  • Grab something heavily processed

  • Eat basic – toast, jam, cornflakes – missing important macro and micro nutrients

  • Rely purely on caffeine to “wake themselves up”


The problem with this approach is that caffeine may temporarily mask fatigue, toast may fill a hunger pang temporarily and skipping breakfast may feel ok in the moment.


But these habits don’t give the body what it actually needs, when it needs it most.


When you under-fuel early, several things often happen:


  • Blood sugar becomes less stable

  • Cravings increase later in the day

  • Energy dips become more likely

  • Overeating at night becomes more common


This creates the classic cycle:


Little fuel in the morning → survival mode through the day → large evening meals → poorer sleep → low energy again tomorrow.


So what to do? Well, breakfast itself does not need to be huge or complicated. The key is simply having a balanced meal that contains:


  • Protein (eggs, yoghurt, etc.)

  • Whole-form carbohydrates (oats, wholegrain breads, etc.)

  • Healthy fats (avocado, salmon, nuts, seeds)


This creates far more stable energy throughout the day. And if you get this right, honestly it could be the one hack that makes a massive difference to the rest of your day.


Your body needs fuel when the day begins — not just when exhaustion finally catches up. Read our blog 'How to build meals for consistent energy ' here to get the scoop on what to do!


Habit 2 — Living on Quick Energy


Modern life runs heavily on stimulation. We all do it, and that’s a part of the modern way of living.


But let’s examine this for a minute: Excess coffee, energy drinks, sugary snacks, quick convenience foods, and constant “pick-me-ups” have become the default solution for a fast paced way of living.


As we have already discussed, the problem is that most of these only provide temporary stimulation rather than genuine, stable energy production. You are not really giving your body what it actually needs to thrive, you are throwing temporary fixes in that only give you temporary energy.


This often creates a cycle of:


  • Temporary highs (energy rush)

  • Followed by crashes (energy crash)

  • Leading to more cravings (3pm snack, anyone)

  • And more reliance on stimulation


Over time, people can end up constantly “chasing energy” rather than naturally producing it.


And this isn’t to say there isn’t a place for the occasional snack, a good coffee and these things. But as part of a well-balanced diet, not as a default for running the system entirely.


The key thing to remember is: Fast energy almost always comes with a faster crash.


Habit 3 — Poor Hydration


Hydration is one of the most overlooked parts of energy production.


Water is involved in almost every major process within the body related to energy production and performance - Nutrient transport, blood circulation, Oxygen delivery, cellular energy production, brain function and many other things!


Electrolytes such as sodium, potassium, and magnesium are also important because they help regulate fluid balance and nerve signalling throughout the body.


With this in mind, even mild dehydration can noticeably affect:


  • Focus

  • Mood

  • Physical performance

  • Mental clarity

  • Cognitive function


Without proper hydration, your body simply cannot operate efficiently.


And you’ll notice it quickly – yet so many people reach for tea, coffee, energy drinks as a replacement. And again, whilst ok in a balanced approach there can be no doubt that water, pure water, is that thing that you most definitely should focus on consuming throughout the day.


As a general baseline:


  • Aim for roughly 2–3 litres of water daily

  • Increase this if you:

    • exercise

    • live in warmer climates

    • sweat heavily

    • are highly active

  • Add electrolyte tablets as a consideration also for warmer climates, sweat heavily, highly active


The key take away is this: A dehydrated body cannot produce energy efficiently


Habit 4 — Sitting All Day and Barely Moving


It sounds counterintuitive, but one of the biggest causes of fatigue is actually inactivity. The less you move, the more tired you feel. And this is such a common problem for the world today.


Modern life encourages sitting almost constantly:


  • Desk jobs

  • Driving

  • Screens & phones

  • Entertainment


The human body was not designed to remain sedentary for most of the day – we have evolved to move, to hunt, to chase. And yet many people now spend the majority of their waking hours barely moving, because the world we live in does not require us to move.


When you look at what’s going on, movement improves:


  • Blood circulation

  • Oxygen delivery

  • Cellular energy production


This in turn can hugely improve mood, focus and energy levels. Even small amounts of movement throughout the day can noticeably improve energy levels and concentration.


Long periods of inactivity, on the other hand, can contribute to:


  • Sluggishness

  • Poor posture

  • Reduced circulation

  • Lower metabolic efficiency

  • Increased feelings of tiredness


Poor habits that are all too common, widespread and which block and restrict energy production in the body.


The solution to this does not need to mean intense workouts every day. It’s not about getting up at 5am for a run in the rain, or hitting the gym for hours every week – small and meaningful movements matter more:


  • Walking

  • Standing regularly

  • Taking movement breaks

  • Post-meal walks

  • Stretching

  • Getting outside


These daily habits can make a massive difference. And of course, exercise is important and this should also be considered but it is important to remember that these little hacks work wonders alongside an exercise regime that works for you.


Keep it simple. And remember: Movement creates energy — inactivity slowly reduces it.


Habit 5 — Poor Sleep Routines


Sleep is one of the foundations of energy, recovery, and overall health.


But sleep quality matters just as much as sleep quantity.


Many people technically spend enough time in bed, but their routines surrounding sleep are working against proper recovery. We’ve all been there, waking up feeling tired still, taking ages to fully wake up (hence the coffee reach) and overall just not feeling that great


And again, the modern and luxurious world we live in plays such a big role here. Modern habits that commonly disrupt sleep include:


  • Screens late at night

  • Irregular bedtimes

  • Eating heavy meals too late

  • Constant stimulation

  • Working late into the evening


And when we look at sleep, its important to remember what it actually is and does for us:


  • Recover physically

  • Regulate hormones 

  • Resets the nervous system

  • Consolidates memory

  • Restores mental capacity and load


So when we don’t get enough sleep, it’s easy to see why it can have such a big effect on our lives. And poor sleep unfortunately doesn’t end there. Poor sleep impacts far more than just tiredness the next morning. It can also worsen:


  • Hunger and cravings

  • Blood sugar regulation

  • Focus and productivity

  • Mood

  • Stress resilience

  • Recovery capacity


You can see here that poor sleep = poorer choices which get you on that energy roller-coaster and likely then set you up for another poor nights rest, and on the cycle goes.


To improve your sleep – you don’t need to do anything fancy. Forget the fad evening routines, just get back to backs – and be consistent:


  • Similar sleep/wake times

  • Reduced stimulation before bed

  • Better evening routines

  • Eating earlier where possible (2-3 hours before you go to bed)


Habit 6 — Constant Stress and “Always On” Living


Many people today live in a near constant state of stimulation.


Notifications, emails, work pressure, social media, busy schedules, financial stress, and mental overload all place continuous demands on the nervous system. And without knowing it these things can push our bodies into a state of high stress (fight or flight).


Whilst stress is an important regulator in the body – the human body was never designed to remain in a prolonged stress state indefinitely.


Stress itself is not inherently bad. But chronic stress is different.


When stress hormones remain elevated for long periods, they can negatively affect:


  • Sleep quality

  • Digestion

  • Recovery

  • Hormone balance

  • Mental clarity

  • Energy production


This often creates another vicious cycle:Stress → poor sleep → poor food choices → low energy → more caffeine → more stress.


Many people try to push through exhaustion rather than creating moments of genuine recovery. And then again, another loop forms and another habit ‘normalises’ and blocks you from really tapping into the natural energy the body has.


And like with sleep – there are things that can be done, and it can be quite simple:


  • Walking outside for 10 mins

  • Reducing stimulation 60 mins before going to bed

  • Taking breaks from intensive work

  • Better boundaries between work and home life

  • Slowing down occasionally (rest days, slow weekends, long hot baths


These things can calm the nervous system – can remind your body that ‘it is ok to rest now’ – helping you tap into the rest states so you can properly re-charge, repair and top back up ready to go.


Habit 7 — Inconsistent Routines


The body thrives on rhythm and consistency.


Consistently poor sleep, irregular meals, chaotic eating patterns, random hydration habits, inconsistent movement, and fluctuating caffeine intake all create unstable energy patterns throughout the day.


And this can confuse the body. It is thinking ‘what’s going on here’ and cannot regulate itself to optimise as the day progresses. Chaotic approach = chaotic energy.


And again, you do not need to be perfect. You simply need:


  • Better consistency

  • Better structure

  • Better repeatable habits


Small habits repeated consistently will almost always outperform occasional “perfect” days followed by burnout or inconsistency.


Remember: Your energy is built through daily patterns — not occasional perfect days.


As we have already covered – when we say consistency what we mean is:

 

·      Consistent sleep & wake cycles

·      Consistent meal times

·      Consistent exercise timings

·      Consistent work / rest periods

 

Nail even a couple of these, and you will start to see very quickly the power of a routine and a consistent approach to your overall energy levels.


Small Habits, Big Energy Shifts


One of the biggest misconceptions about energy is that improving it requires some dramatic life overhaul.


In reality, most people simply need to remove some of the habits quietly draining them every day. Because better energy often comes from:


  • Eating more consistently

  • Sleeping slightly better

  • Moving more regularly

  • Drinking more water

  • Reducing reliance on quick stimulation

  • Creating simple repeatable routines


You do not need perfection.


You need sustainable systems that fit into real life. Real ways to drive real energy in the real world. That's it. And the comfort in that is this: Small improvements compound surprisingly quickly.


Often, better energy isn’t about doing more — it’s about stopping the things quietly exhausting you.


Closing


If this feels more realistic than restrictive diets or complicated plans, you’re not alone.


Most people don’t need more information — they need simple, repeatable systems that actually fit into real life.


That’s exactly why I created a FREE Daily Energy Blueprint Guide — a practical system to help you stabilise your energy using food and habits that actually work.


👉 Download your Free Daily Energy Blueprint here


And you can view the rest of our blog with lots of other useful hints and insight - right here

 
 
 

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